So, you’re ditching the big guest list, skipping the stress, and running headfirst into a love story that’s raw, romantic, and real. Whether you’re hiking to a mountaintop in Virginia, renting a moody Airbnb in North Carolina, or saying your vows under a waterfall in Tennessee, eloping is about choosing freedom over formality.
But even spontaneous magic needs a little planning. This is your ultimate elopement checklist for 2026 couples who want a day that’s as wild and unforgettable as their love story.
🖤 1. Dream It, Don’t Overthink It
Before the logistics, vision comes first. Sit down with your partner and ask:
- How do we want it to feel? (Adventurous? Soft? Rock & roll?)
- What’s most important to us—location, vows, photos, food?
- Do we want anyone there? Or just us?
Build your day around experience, not expectations.
🌎 2. Choose the Perfect Place to Say “I Do”
Location sets the tone. Do you want misty mountains, moody forests, desert sunsets, or vintage city streets?
Consider:
- Weather and seasons
- Travel requirements
- Privacy and access
- Permits (especially for national parks!)
Hot tip for 2026: Elopements in lesser-known nature spots and historic venues are on trend. Think: foggy coastal cliffs, mossy ruins, or even retro motels with neon signs.
📸 3. Book Your Dream Photographer Early
You don’t need a giant guest list, but you do need someone who can capture the magic like it’s a love film. A photographer who understands mood, movement, and moments.
Look for someone who:
- Shoots in a storytelling, cinematic style
- Is down to hike, road trip, or run barefoot with you
- Helps you feel relaxed, real, and wild
Bonus: Ask if they’ll help you with timeline planning and location scouting. (I do that for all my couples 😉)
🧳 4. The Elopement Packing List (Don’t Forget This Stuff)
Wedding Essentials:
- Vows / vow book
- Marriage license + ID
- Rings
- Outfits + shoes
- Bouquet / accessories
- Touch-up makeup / travel mirror
Adventure Must-Haves:
- Hiking shoes or boots
- Warm layers (yes, even in summer)
- Water + snacks
- Headlamps or lanterns if you’re chasing sunrise or sunset
Extras That Elevate It:
- A custom playlist + portable speaker
- Champagne, coffee, or your favorite drink
- Polaroids or a vintage camcorder for DIY behind-the-scenes
- Sentimental objects (letters, photos, heirlooms)
💍 5. Timeline, Vibes, and Legal Stuff
Timeline:
Don’t rush. Build a flow that feels calm and connected. Include time for:
- Getting ready
- First look (if you want)
- Vow exchange
- Portraits + golden hour
- Private post-ceremony moment
Legal Details:
Depending on your location:
- You may need witnesses or an officiant
- Some states/countries allow self-solemnizing
- Permits for photography or ceremony might be required
📍Pro Tip: Make sure your photographer is familiar with the legal side of elopements in your location.
🔥 6. After the “I Do”: Celebrate Your Way
Just because it’s an elopement doesn’t mean it’s not a full-day celebration. After your ceremony, you could:
- Picnic under the stars
- Head to a dive bar or diner for burgers + beers
- Take a moody bathtub photo session back at the Airbnb
- Invite a few friends to meet up for drinks or a cozy dinner
- Dance to your song in headlights or fog
This is your love story, your rules.
💫 Final Thought
An elopement is more than a “small wedding”, it’s a bold choice to do life and love on your terms. With the right intention, planning, and a little edge, it becomes a once-in-a-lifetime chapter you’ll never stop replaying.
If you’re looking for someone to document your elopement in a way that feels raw, romantic, and real, I’d love to help you write your love story through photographs.